So, I know it's been pretty well forever since I updated this and I sincerely apologise. My life has, as of lately, been one busy day after another and finding time to sit down and write has been shoved to the bottom of my list.
I would like to tell you that this lovely evening I have finally reached the bottom of that list, but, alas, that is not the case. In reality, I should be shopping for a birthday gift for my brother who turns 11 on Friday instead, but I have moved "write in your blog!" to the top of my 'to-do' list.
I was thinking on my drive home from work today and I decided that I haven't really filled the Internet in on me... So, here is my plan. I am going to tell you a love story. My love story. I can just picture all you romantics out there sighing and wrapping your hand a little tighter around your mug of tea and dreaming of love as you lean in a little closer to the computer screen as if I am going to tell you the secret of love. You're doing that, aren't you?
Haha, ok well in all honesty, you may be disappointed by this story of romantic mushiness, but I think it's cute. First, here is us... My handsome Troy and I this past spring at my aunt's wedding. That is my mother photo-bombing in the back. She looks like she's yelling at us!
Aren't we so cute? Troy and I met in high school. He was a grade ahead of me, but we had a few friends in common. We started dating when I was in grade 11, and he was in grade 12. I know, some people say that starting dating then was stupid, and maybe they're right. But I think, for Troy and I, we would have drifted apart if we hadn't started then, but argue as you will.
We started 'hanging out' sometime after Christmas when I was in grade 11. We became fast friends, and in February I went to the Dominican Republic on a mission trip with the school. It was there that I really realized, and admitted to myself that I was indeed in love with Troy, and missed him terribly.
When I came home we continued hanging out, and he met my family for the first time. He and my dad hit it off when Troy came to pick me up for the first time. They had a long (and incredibly boring) conversation about chainsaws. They have gotten along splendidly since then and continue to bond over manly things like hunting and wood cutting... oh the joys!
Troy finally asked me to be his girlfriend on March 20th 2009. Awe! Our first date was watching Wall-e in his Mom's basement. A movie which neither of us really enjoyed. It has been almost 3 1/2 years since that lovely day.
But, here is the good part. The first Christmas Troy and I were together, after we had been dating for 8 months, he gave me the most beautiful and touching gift anyone had ever given me. A stunning silver Chastity ring. It was called 'an unblossomed rose' and had a delicate rose on the top with a tiny ruby in it. I think the name makes it so much more special! It was his promise to honour, not only me, but our faith. A promise to love me wholly and completely without compromising my purity and dignity. It was one of the most touching moments in my life, and I always wear the tiny band on my left ring finger. There it will stay until one day, God willing, it will be replaced with a wedding band.
Here is a photo of the lovely ring! Isn't it beautiful?
So, there is much more to our love story as each day is a new chapter in our love and devotion, but I won't bore you with details today! But I would love to encourage all couples out there striving for purity and holiness in your relationships. I get it, it's tough!
I really want to stress that although this ring serves as a beautiful reminder to us of our commitment it does not make fulfilling that commitment any easier. Every day is a struggle to keep our minds, souls and bodies pure. There are times when we have fallen to one extent or another. The important part is that we pull ourselves up, seek forgiveness from God, and from one another and seek to always strive for perfection.
I truly believe that saving parts of our relationship that belong only to a marriage our relationship is much deeper. By saving sex and avoiding temptations our relationship is so full! We are able to really get to know one another, and most importantly, one another's family.
I feel so blessed to have Troy, and my family, especially my Mom and sisters who are always calling me to holiness and calling me to be above reproach and avoid temptation. I hope that I can be that support to someone...to any of you young woman out there that come across my blog. I want to walk with you on this and I want to be your support and for you to be mine. We cannot do this alone.Anyway, enough ramblings for one day.
God bless you all!
Love,
Em xox
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